RAYMOND, Derek Gary

Oct 29, 2019

1979-2019

Derek passed suddenly October 29th at the age of 40, leaving behind his loving parents Dennis and Linda of Timmins, Ontario. He leaves in sadness his children, Katelyn, Madison and Logan, and their mother Dana. He will be fondly remembered by his common law partner Caroline Brousseau. Derek is survived by his brothers Jason (Corinne) and Jeff (Joy), nephews Justin and Mathieu and many aunts, uncles and cousins. Derek had a creative mind and had a passion for music and the outdoors. He was known for his quick wit, his sense of humour and his kind and compassionate spirit. A registered nurse, Derek will be remembered by many in the health care field. A gathering to remember Derek will take place at First Memorial Funeral Services, at 259 St. Patrick St., Ottawa, ON. On Sunday November 3rd, 2019 from 2-4pm and 7-9pm.

 

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  1. Lorena Brady Duncan May 12, 2020 at 2:23 pm - Reply

    Very sorry to hear of Dereks passing

    I worked with Derek at CsCoop/Alterna

    He was a wonderful gentleman and we kept in contact

    Over Facebook for many years When he moved back to Ottawa he reached out to me a few times

    To go for a coffee but I unfortunately had a lot going on and my work. Consumed my time we never ended up

    Going once he met Caroline he was as busy too

    I was very shocked and saddened by his loss

    I found him to be compassionate funny

    And a wonderful human being

    He often talked about his mom and how she gave up

    Everything so her children could have more

    He loved his family very much . He will be missed

    he spoke about Dana and the children in their early times together with passion and love.

    He was very Happy when he met Carolyn

    And was in love again They seamed to be perfect

    And she brought out the best n him

    Gone too soon You will be missed my friend

    Xoxo

  2. Lorena Brady March 23, 2020 at 12:06 pm - Reply

    I am so sad to hear of the passing of my friend

    Derek

    I had some personal tragedies at the time of his passing

    And did not go on Facebook to see this

    I worked with Derek at CS Coop /Alterna Savings

    For a few years and reconnected by Facebook

    In the past few years

    He was a wonderful person very funny and kind

    And he told me he wanted to leave banking

    To pursue a career where he would be actually helping people and then he Moved and went back to school to become a nurse

    I was so proud and happy for him

    We stayed connected through Facebook

    During his journey with his children and his studies

    One day I received a message that he moved back to

    Ottawa’s and was going to be working here

    He wanted to meet up for coffee but ai never had time

    I regret that very much We did however continue

    To help each other through some tough times

    As we were both going through separation s at the same time. I was happy to see that he made a new

    Friend Carolyn and really enjoyed seeing his

    Progress with her ,they seemed to be happy

    I am truly sorry to hear of his passing

    He loved his mom very much and often spoke

    Of her to me over the years ❤️God Bless you xo

    Heaven received an angel ❤️

    Hope you are watching over us🙏❤️

    Love you and miss you little buddy

    Lorena xoxo

  3. Monika Kovacs November 8, 2019 at 1:23 pm - Reply

    Though I didn’t know Derek well, I had the pleasure to mentor Derek when he first started at the LHIN. He was very bright and compassionate and sincere. What an enormous loss. My heart goes to his family and friends.

  4. Pauline Barrett November 7, 2019 at 9:21 pm - Reply

    Mes sincères condoléances à toute la famille, les enfants de Derek ainsi que sa conjointe, Caroline. J’ai eu le plaisir de travailler avec Derek au Réseau local d’intégration des services de santé (RLISS) de Champlain. C’était un homme gentil, avec un esprit de compassion. Il a touché la vie de plusieurs personnes qui ne l’oublierons pas.

  5. Chantal Guimont November 7, 2019 at 12:53 pm - Reply

    Mes plus sincères condoléances Caroline ainsi qu’à la famille. Ce sont des moments difficiles à vivre et je suis de tout coeur avec vous.

  6. Michelle De Grandmont November 7, 2019 at 5:10 am - Reply

    Derek was a kind and energetic soul. Full of passion and joy de vivre. Although Derek will be missed at Riverpath, my heat is with his family, his children and close friends. My sincere condolences.

  7. Ginette November 6, 2019 at 3:06 am - Reply

    Dana: Sorry for your loss. My deepest condolences to the whole family.
    Ginette from the Greenboro Fitness center.

  8. Annie November 5, 2019 at 9:20 pm - Reply

    Sincere Sympathies to Family and Friends. Derek was a most kind person always full of compliments. Was really sad to hear of his passing. I had the pleasure of working with him at the LHIN. He will be missed by many. Sending you all love and strength during these times.

  9. Chantal Delorme November 5, 2019 at 7:15 pm - Reply

    Sincere sympathies to the whole family and to our neighbors Linda and Dennis. Thoughts and prayers.

  10. Bev Humphries November 5, 2019 at 6:04 pm - Reply

    Dana & family,
    So sorry for you loss. Find comfort in knowing that there are many people around you that care & are there for support.

  11. Kathryn Grant November 4, 2019 at 5:27 pm - Reply

    Linda & Dennis: So very sorry for your loss. Our condolences and prayers to you and all the family.
    Kath & Ryan

  12. Marie November 3, 2019 at 11:21 pm - Reply

    Derek,
    Iwill never forget you. The relationship you develop with people gives the right to say that you are exceptional. I believe that you are not dead, you are entering a new dimension of life.
    Courage to your parents!

  13. Sharlene Seguin ( Philbert) November 3, 2019 at 10:37 pm - Reply

    So saddened to hear of your loss. I grew up on the same street as Derek’s Dad. Derek and I met here in Ottawa at work. We soon discovered that Timmins connection and enjoyed talking about our families and Northern Ontario friends. He was kind, caring and outgoing. Simply an awesome young man. He will be dearly missed, but never forgotten.

  14. Richard Dyson November 3, 2019 at 6:37 pm - Reply

    Sorry for your loss Dana. Our thoughts are with you and your family.

  15. Kat Maidment November 3, 2019 at 6:25 pm - Reply

    Dana, Katelyn, Maddie and Logan
    No words can ease the pain the loss of Derek/ Dad has caused. But know that he’ll live on in your hearts forever. We’re all here for you whenever you need us. My sincere condolences to all his loved ones.

  16. Kim and Holden Matte November 3, 2019 at 6:15 pm - Reply

    Dana, Katelyn, Maddie and Logan
    My heart is full of love and empathy for you at this difficult time. We are here for you to lean on when you need us. Your dad lives within your heart and may your memories bring you comfort in times of sorrow.
    Love you all my little bugs xox
    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

  17. Claire November 3, 2019 at 4:53 pm - Reply

    Chère Caroline, en ces moments difficiles, je tenais à te faire part de mes pensées les plus affectueuses.
    Étant émue par ce deuil qui vous affecte, reçevez, Caroline, Ginette et Paul, mes sincères condoléances.

  18. Claire November 3, 2019 at 4:53 pm - Reply

    Chère Caroline, en ces moments difficiles, je tenais à te faire part de mes pensées les plus affectueuses.

    Étant émue par ce deuil qui vous affecte, reçevez, Caroline, Ginette et Paul, mes sincères condoléances.

  19. Catherine Brown November 3, 2019 at 3:25 am - Reply

    Although we hadn’t known each other long, we definitely shared a few laughs in that short period of time and a great love for music.

    My condolences to your family, especially your 3 beautiful children.

    Rest In Peace Derek. You will be missed.

  20. Marc Groulx November 3, 2019 at 12:17 am - Reply

    Jason, I’m so sorry for your loss. Please accept my most sincere condolences. My thoughts are with you and your family.

  21. Hesam Mahdavi November 2, 2019 at 9:08 pm - Reply

    He will be greatly missed in the community. He was an amazing person to know and work with.

  22. Andre Charlebois November 2, 2019 at 3:27 pm - Reply

    We have lost great man, a fun co worker with a great sense of humor and genuine person. Derek will be missed by us all at Riverpath. My deepest condolences goes out to the family and Caroline.
    Love and prayers
    Andre and Nicole Charlebois

  23. BW Chase November 2, 2019 at 2:58 pm - Reply

    Derek,
    You were loved and you will be missed.
    May your spirit rest easy now.
    Take care, up there.

  24. Lori Gale November 2, 2019 at 2:16 pm - Reply

    Katelyn, Maddie, Logan, Dana, and Family,
    Words are not enough but please know there are many surrounding you with hugs and support.
    Fred & Lori 🙏🏻

  25. Ellie Blauvelt November 2, 2019 at 2:08 pm - Reply

    I had the great privilege of working with Derek when he lived in Yarmouth Nova Scotia. He was a wonderful nurse & person, friendly, compassionate & kind. My deepest & most heartfelt sympathy to his entire family during this difficult time. will keep you all in my thoughts & prayers. RIP, Derek

  26. Jackie Fortin November 2, 2019 at 1:11 pm - Reply

    My deepest condolences to Linda and her family. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

  27. Judith Kelly November 2, 2019 at 10:20 am - Reply

    Although I didn’t know Derek, he was an irreplaceable presence in your lives and he will never be forgotten. In sadness I extend my heartfelt sympathy.

  28. Andrea Meuse November 2, 2019 at 9:03 am - Reply

    I was so sad to hear of his passing..my sympathies to all his family…especially his children. Worked with him au Villa St.joseph du lac..a great nurse..
    ..

  29. Cecile claveau November 2, 2019 at 3:00 am - Reply

    Le 2/11/2019
    Mes sincères sympathies Caroline ainsi que la famille
    .nos pensées sont vers toi.c’est un moment difficile
    À vivre avec le temps cette douleur ressenti au fond de toi va s’apaiser.
    Cecile et Félix. 😥😥❤❤

  30. Kristy & Eric November 2, 2019 at 2:24 am - Reply

    Still in shock,
    Eric and I are thinking of you all & will cherish the times we had in college and thankful for you’re friendship over the years.

  31. Marc Colameco November 2, 2019 at 1:38 am - Reply

    We are so very sorry and saddened to hear of Derek’s passing away. Our heartfelt thoughts and prayers are with all of your family at this time.
    Marc and Nancy Colameco

  32. marc brousseau November 2, 2019 at 1:09 am - Reply

    Nos sincères sympathies à toi Caroline ainsi que la famille. Nous sommes avec vous en pensée.
    JO Anne et Marc xx

  33. Donna ogden November 2, 2019 at 12:15 am - Reply

    My condolences he will be sadly missed. A great guy

  34. Benoît et Léonie November 1, 2019 at 11:56 pm - Reply

    Que le temps apaise la douleur.
    Que la vie retrouve son sens.

    Mes sympathies à toute la famille en ces jours de grande tristesse et spécialement pour toi, Caroline .

    Nous sommes de tout cœur avec vous.

  35. Patricia Wilson November 1, 2019 at 11:38 pm - Reply

    So sad..prayers and thoughts to his family.

  36. Patricia and Claude November 1, 2019 at 11:34 pm - Reply

    Sending you lots of love and comfort, we are so sorry for your loss.

  37. Janique and Tom November 1, 2019 at 11:12 pm - Reply

    Derek had a beautiful soul. May he rest in peace. Our sincere condolences to his loved ones.

  38. Garth November 1, 2019 at 11:01 pm - Reply

    My deepest condolences to the whole family.

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Lorena Brady Duncan

Very sorry to hear of Dereks passing I worked with Derek at CsCoop/Alterna He was a wonderful gentleman and we kept in contact Over Facebook for many years When he moved back to Ottawa he reached out to me a few times To go for a coffee but I unfortunately had a lot going on and my work. Consumed my time we never ended up Going once he met Caroline he was as busy too I was very shocked and saddened by his loss I found him to be compassionate funny And a wonderful human being He often talked about his mom and how she gave up Everything so her children could have more He loved his family very much . He will be missed he spoke about Dana and the children in their early times together with passion and love. He was very Happy when he met Carolyn And was in love again They seamed to be perfect And she brought out the best n him Gone too soon You will be missed my friend Xoxo

Lorena Brady

I am so sad to hear of the passing of my friend Derek I had some personal tragedies at the time of his passing And did not go on Facebook to see this I worked with Derek at CS Coop /Alterna Savings For a few years and reconnected by Facebook In the past few years He was a wonderful person very funny and kind And he told me he wanted to leave banking To pursue a career where he would be actually helping people and then he Moved and went back to school to become a nurse I was so proud and happy for him We stayed connected through Facebook During his journey with his children and his studies One day I received a message that he moved back to Ottawa's and was going to be working here He wanted to meet up for coffee but ai never had time I regret that very much We did however continue To help each other through some tough times As we were both going through separation s at the same time. I was happy to see that he made a new Friend Carolyn and really enjoyed seeing his Progress with her ,they seemed to be happy I am truly sorry to hear of his passing He loved his mom very much and often spoke Of her to me over the years ❤️God Bless you xo Heaven received an angel ❤️ Hope you are watching over us🙏❤️ Love you and miss you little buddy Lorena xoxo

Monika Kovacs

Though I didn't know Derek well, I had the pleasure to mentor Derek when he first started at the LHIN. He was very bright and compassionate and sincere. What an enormous loss. My heart goes to his family and friends.

Pauline Barrett

Mes sincères condoléances à toute la famille, les enfants de Derek ainsi que sa conjointe, Caroline. J'ai eu le plaisir de travailler avec Derek au Réseau local d’intégration des services de santé (RLISS) de Champlain. C'était un homme gentil, avec un esprit de compassion. Il a touché la vie de plusieurs personnes qui ne l'oublierons pas.

Chantal Guimont

Mes plus sincères condoléances Caroline ainsi qu'à la famille. Ce sont des moments difficiles à vivre et je suis de tout coeur avec vous.

Michelle De Grandmont

Derek was a kind and energetic soul. Full of passion and joy de vivre. Although Derek will be missed at Riverpath, my heat is with his family, his children and close friends. My sincere condolences.

Ginette

Dana: Sorry for your loss. My deepest condolences to the whole family. Ginette from the Greenboro Fitness center.

Annie

Sincere Sympathies to Family and Friends. Derek was a most kind person always full of compliments. Was really sad to hear of his passing. I had the pleasure of working with him at the LHIN. He will be missed by many. Sending you all love and strength during these times.

Chantal Delorme

Sincere sympathies to the whole family and to our neighbors Linda and Dennis. Thoughts and prayers.

Bev Humphries

Dana & family, So sorry for you loss. Find comfort in knowing that there are many people around you that care & are there for support.

Kathryn Grant

Linda & Dennis: So very sorry for your loss. Our condolences and prayers to you and all the family. Kath & Ryan

Marie

Derek, Iwill never forget you. The relationship you develop with people gives the right to say that you are exceptional. I believe that you are not dead, you are entering a new dimension of life. Courage to your parents!

Sharlene Seguin ( Philbert)

So saddened to hear of your loss. I grew up on the same street as Derek’s Dad. Derek and I met here in Ottawa at work. We soon discovered that Timmins connection and enjoyed talking about our families and Northern Ontario friends. He was kind, caring and outgoing. Simply an awesome young man. He will be dearly missed, but never forgotten.

Richard Dyson

Sorry for your loss Dana. Our thoughts are with you and your family.

Kat Maidment

Dana, Katelyn, Maddie and Logan No words can ease the pain the loss of Derek/ Dad has caused. But know that he’ll live on in your hearts forever. We’re all here for you whenever you need us. My sincere condolences to all his loved ones.

Kim and Holden Matte

Dana, Katelyn, Maddie and Logan My heart is full of love and empathy for you at this difficult time. We are here for you to lean on when you need us. Your dad lives within your heart and may your memories bring you comfort in times of sorrow. Love you all my little bugs xox My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Claire

Chère Caroline, en ces moments difficiles, je tenais à te faire part de mes pensées les plus affectueuses. Étant émue par ce deuil qui vous affecte, reçevez, Caroline, Ginette et Paul, mes sincères condoléances.

Claire

Chère Caroline, en ces moments difficiles, je tenais à te faire part de mes pensées les plus affectueuses. Étant émue par ce deuil qui vous affecte, reçevez, Caroline, Ginette et Paul, mes sincères condoléances.

Catherine Brown

Although we hadn’t known each other long, we definitely shared a few laughs in that short period of time and a great love for music. My condolences to your family, especially your 3 beautiful children. Rest In Peace Derek. You will be missed.

Marc Groulx

Jason, I’m so sorry for your loss. Please accept my most sincere condolences. My thoughts are with you and your family.

Hesam Mahdavi

He will be greatly missed in the community. He was an amazing person to know and work with.

Andre Charlebois

We have lost great man, a fun co worker with a great sense of humor and genuine person. Derek will be missed by us all at Riverpath. My deepest condolences goes out to the family and Caroline. Love and prayers Andre and Nicole Charlebois

BW Chase

Derek, You were loved and you will be missed. May your spirit rest easy now. Take care, up there.

Lori Gale

Katelyn, Maddie, Logan, Dana, and Family, Words are not enough but please know there are many surrounding you with hugs and support. Fred & Lori 🙏🏻

Ellie Blauvelt

I had the great privilege of working with Derek when he lived in Yarmouth Nova Scotia. He was a wonderful nurse & person, friendly, compassionate & kind. My deepest & most heartfelt sympathy to his entire family during this difficult time. will keep you all in my thoughts & prayers. RIP, Derek

Jackie Fortin

My deepest condolences to Linda and her family. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Judith Kelly

Although I didn’t know Derek, he was an irreplaceable presence in your lives and he will never be forgotten. In sadness I extend my heartfelt sympathy.

Andrea Meuse

I was so sad to hear of his passing..my sympathies to all his family...especially his children. Worked with him au Villa St.joseph du lac..a great nurse.. ..

Cecile claveau

Le 2/11/2019 Mes sincères sympathies Caroline ainsi que la famille .nos pensées sont vers toi.c'est un moment difficile À vivre avec le temps cette douleur ressenti au fond de toi va s'apaiser. Cecile et Félix. 😥😥❤❤

Kristy & Eric

Still in shock, Eric and I are thinking of you all & will cherish the times we had in college and thankful for you're friendship over the years.

Marc Colameco

We are so very sorry and saddened to hear of Derek's passing away. Our heartfelt thoughts and prayers are with all of your family at this time. Marc and Nancy Colameco

marc brousseau

Nos sincères sympathies à toi Caroline ainsi que la famille. Nous sommes avec vous en pensée. JO Anne et Marc xx

Donna ogden

My condolences he will be sadly missed. A great guy

Benoît et Léonie

Que le temps apaise la douleur. Que la vie retrouve son sens. Mes sympathies à toute la famille en ces jours de grande tristesse et spécialement pour toi, Caroline . Nous sommes de tout cœur avec vous.

Patricia Wilson

So sad..prayers and thoughts to his family.

Patricia and Claude

Sending you lots of love and comfort, we are so sorry for your loss.

Janique and Tom

Derek had a beautiful soul. May he rest in peace. Our sincere condolences to his loved ones.

Garth

My deepest condolences to the whole family.

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