Stephen Wilfred Arsenault

Jul 18, 1963 - Sep 26, 2025

It is with profound sadness that our family announces the passing of our beloved son, brother, father, uncle, cousin and friend, Stephen Wilfred Arsenault, who left us on September 26, 2025, at Bruyère Palliative Care Hospice, surrounded by love, music, and family.

Born in Ottawa and raised in Aylmer before moving with his family to Prince Edward Island and eventually back to Ottawa, Steve’s passion for music and technology defined his life. A natural genius, he demonstrated his remarkable gift for tinkering at just four years old, when he took apart a transistor radio before dinner—and reassembled it perfectly afterward. His love of rhythm was evident early, too; with pots, pans, and anything that could carry a beat, he gathered neighbourhood children into joyful parades, earning the nickname “The Pied Piper.”

Music remained Steve’s lifelong calling. A gifted singer, songwriter, and multi-instrumentalist, he was also the “sound guru” for countless performers, including Hour Glass, Tzar, Jeff Healey, The Family Brown, Liona Boyd, and Dick Maloney, as well as his own band, The HighTech Hillbillies. He proudly supported his father, Wilf, when he was inducted into the Ottawa Valley Country Music Hall of Fame, ensuring every note rang true.

After moving to Smiths Falls, Steve created a professional home sound studio that became a hub for musicians and artists. It also became the heart of countless family celebrations, especially Christmas gatherings, where his perfectionist’s ear guided singalongs, recordings, and laughter-filled performances. Known for his kindness, patience, and remarkable intelligence, Steve worked alongside others with quiet encouragement until every project reached perfection—whether it was music, a repair, or his signature Greek salad at family potlucks.

Steve also built a respected career as a self-employed videographer and was the ultimate “Mr. Fix-It,” always willing to lend his talents to family, friends, and neighbours. He faced his final days as he lived his life—with courage, heart, and humor. His family gathered around him, sharing music, songs, and the silly jokes only they would understand.

Steve will be deeply missed by his parents, Kitty and Wilf Arsenault; his sisters, Kimberley Arsenault (William Wallace) and Christine Béchard (Luc); his son, Justin (Taylor); and his stepdaughter, Katie Fenton. He also leaves behind many loving aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces, nephews, extended family, and countless friends who were touched by his music and kindness.

The family extends heartfelt gratitude to the staff at the Ottawa hospitals, Smiths Falls Hospital, and especially the 5th Floor Palliative Care team at Bruyère, led by Dr. Rice, for their extraordinary care and compassion.

Donations in Steve’s memory may be made to Bruyère Hospice or the Canadian Cancer Society. A celebration of Steve’s life will be held at a later date.

Love you BIG time bro – K.J. & Chrissy

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30 Comments

  1. Nick Babluck & Family October 13, 2025 at 7:39 pm - Reply

    Steve was a great man also very kind and respectful neighbor. He always used to drop a Christmas card in our mailbox. Never forgot to wish us on every celebration just truly a beauty he will be greatly missed. Rest in peace.

  2. Colleen Babluck October 13, 2025 at 7:35 pm - Reply

    Our deepest heartfelt condolences to Steve’s family. Steve was our neighbour for the last 6 years. He was such a kind man. We are saddened to hear this news.
    Nick, Colleen and Nicole

  3. Neville Wells October 9, 2025 at 1:42 pm - Reply

    Dear Wilf and Kitty: We would never have thought, when we became friends at the Chamberland in Aylmer 60-odd years ago, that we would ever see the day when you would suffer such a loss! Anne-Lis joins me in extending our warmest love and deepest sympathy. You are in our hearts and thoughts. Love – Neville and Anne-Lis

    • Christine October 13, 2025 at 7:31 pm - Reply

      Thank you for your kind words.

  4. Lyoness Woodstock October 9, 2025 at 8:18 am - Reply

    So very sorry for your families loss. My condolences to all Stephens family.

  5. Adele Bisson October 3, 2025 at 4:03 pm - Reply

    Dearest Kitty, Wilf and all of you who knew Steve, I pray that Jesus holds you in the palm of His hand and gives you peace, love and joy knowing that Steve is with his heavenly father and no longer suffering in pain. I never got the opportunity to meet Steve. The parties he attended where Marla Glazer either hosted or group meets, it just happened that I was unable to attend. I got to know Steve through Marla, our good friend. She spoke so fondly of him, never a negative word and very supportive of his illness. Marla’s love for Steve was unconditional and she was always there for him. I feel deep in my heart and soul that we could have been kindred spirits. Whenever we don’t understand why things happen the way they do, we must always remember, as I was brought up to believe….GOD’S TIMING IS PERFECT! Blessings and prayers are sent your way. My very deepest condolences.

  6. Randy Thorpe October 3, 2025 at 1:55 pm - Reply

    Only knew Steve when he was a kid. He was a neighbour,but one of the good ones. I was lucky enough to kid sit him. After hearing the story of all he has done, I am ashamed of my life I have led( sitting on the couch). I never would have been able to keep up.
    My condolences to the Arsenault family.

    • Christine October 3, 2025 at 6:53 pm - Reply

      Thank you Randy.

  7. Marla Glazer October 3, 2025 at 3:30 am - Reply

    To the Family of Stephen Arsenault

    I am deeply saddened by the passing of Steve. He was more than a friend to me—he was someone I loved dearly and held close to my heart. His kindness, warmth, and the joy that he brought into every moment will never be forgotten.

    Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. May you find comfort in the love and memories you shared, and may his beautiful spirit continue to live on in all of us who were blessed to know him

    With heartfelt sympathy,
    Marla

  8. Hazel Cameron October 3, 2025 at 12:24 am - Reply

    Wilf Kitty and family. My deepest sympathy at the loss of Steven. May your memories hold him close. I’m prayers to all

    • Christine October 3, 2025 at 6:58 pm - Reply

      Thank you.

  9. Lisa Cameron October 3, 2025 at 12:24 am - Reply

    Dear Wilf and Family, sincere condolences on the loss of Steve. May your memories bring you comfort.

  10. Cathy Tracey-Teevens October 2, 2025 at 9:02 pm - Reply

    Wilf, Kitty and family. My deepest sympathy. Anytime I met Steven I was always greeted with a huge smile and a big bear hug. He was a lovely young man. Hugs

    • Christine October 3, 2025 at 6:58 pm - Reply

      Thank you.

  11. James Nickerson October 2, 2025 at 4:57 pm - Reply

    You’ll always be remembered for your infectious laugh and the way you lit up family gatherings. My thoughts are with you Uncle Wilf and Aunt Kitty during this tough time.

  12. Pauline Gaudry October 2, 2025 at 11:49 am - Reply

    Kitty, Wilf, Kim, Christine, Justin, Katie and families I was very saddened to hear about Stephen’s passing. I have so many fond memories of growing up in Aylmer especially the fun we had centered around music. I remember Stephen playing the drums, guitar and other instruments and always smiling doing something he loved. My heart aches for you all and you’re in my thoughts and prayers. Love Pauline Gaudry

    • Christine October 3, 2025 at 6:56 pm - Reply

      Tnx Paulie. Xo

  13. Annette Thompson October 1, 2025 at 4:47 pm - Reply

    Our deepest condolences to Steve’s family. He was a very loved friend and neighbour for years. He will continue to shine bright in his new life in the heavens above. So many good times, laughter and sing along will always be remembered by all who loved him.

    • Christine October 3, 2025 at 6:57 pm - Reply

      Thank you.

  14. Judi Moffatt-Hill October 1, 2025 at 4:45 pm - Reply

    Wilf, Kitty and all of Steve’s family – I am SO sorry for your loss. Sincere condolences.

  15. Gary Monette October 1, 2025 at 12:25 pm - Reply

    Sad news for sure…steve and I do have a few stories to share for sure but they are funny..Just sayin..

  16. Tracey Sampson and Annie Martineau October 1, 2025 at 12:37 am - Reply

    Offering you our heartfelt condolences to your family and friends for your loss.
    Wishing you hope in the midst of sorrow. Comfort in the midst of pain.

    • Christine October 3, 2025 at 2:46 am - Reply

      Thank you both. Xo

  17. Kelly McManus October 1, 2025 at 12:16 am - Reply

    To the Arsenault family, we extend our deepest sympathy and condolences for this tragic loss! I recall Stephen as a young boy who was a budding musician then, playing his small “open tuned” guitar when I would visit the Arsenault’s home in my early teens to get some guitar playing pointers from his dad Wilf Arsenault. Wilf is a guitar master and clearly Stephen inherited his father’s artistic talents and skills for music. I will always envy those who pursue their passions and make them their life’s goals! It is very apparent that Stephen lived his life with artistic passion and shared his love for music and sound with many! Losing someone so special is very difficult and I pray that the Arsenault family will be able to find solace and peace in Stephen’s memory and through the many ways he touched those he loved. Your family was very supportive to our family when we were dealing with the loss of our father Jack. Kitty, Kimberley, and Christine were there to support us and we in turn extend our love and support for you all as you grieve Stephen’s untimely passing. Sincere Condolences – Kelly McManus & Family

    • Christine October 3, 2025 at 2:45 am - Reply

      Thank you Kelly…your words ring true. Xo

  18. Tony True September 30, 2025 at 10:34 pm - Reply

    Wilf and family…

    My most sincere condolences to everyone on the loss of Steve. The few times I had the opportunity to talk to him he was always upbeat and positive. Such a wonderful person, such a great loss.

    Tony True

  19. Judy Cheney September 30, 2025 at 10:13 pm - Reply

    Always ready to sing.
    Forever in our hearts ❤️

    • Christine October 3, 2025 at 2:48 am - Reply

      Your presence on that day brought him new life. We were all so thankful that you were there. Xo

  20. Kathy McManus September 30, 2025 at 9:36 pm - Reply

    My heart aches for all the family and friends saddened by Steven’s passing – gone too soon. I will never forget the couple of gigs Steven and I had as children singing at the Aylmer Winter Carnival – he was the talent – I was more the backup singer. Our families have many fond memories of various gatherings growing up – a connection that always picked right where we left off even though many years may have passed between meeting or chance encounters. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends. My deepest sympathies.

    Kathy McManus

    • Christine October 3, 2025 at 2:48 am - Reply

      Thank you.

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All Memories

Nick Babluck & Family

Steve was a great man also very kind and respectful neighbor. He always used to drop a Christmas card in our mailbox. Never forgot to wish us on every celebration just truly a beauty he will be greatly missed. Rest in peace.

Colleen Babluck

Our deepest heartfelt condolences to Steve’s family. Steve was our neighbour for the last 6 years. He was such a kind man. We are saddened to hear this news. Nick, Colleen and Nicole

Christine

Replied to Neville Wells

Thank you for your kind words.

Neville Wells

Dear Wilf and Kitty: We would never have thought, when we became friends at the Chamberland in Aylmer 60-odd years ago, that we would ever see the day when you would suffer such a loss! Anne-Lis joins me in extending our warmest love and deepest sympathy. You are in our hearts and thoughts. Love - Neville and Anne-Lis

Lyoness Woodstock

So very sorry for your families loss. My condolences to all Stephens family.

Christine

Replied to Hazel Cameron

Thank you.

Christine

Replied to Cathy Tracey-Teevens

Thank you.

Christine

Replied to Annette Thompson

Thank you.

Christine

Replied to Pauline Gaudry

Tnx Paulie. Xo

Christine

Replied to Randy Thorpe

Thank you Randy.

Adele Bisson

Dearest Kitty, Wilf and all of you who knew Steve, I pray that Jesus holds you in the palm of His hand and gives you peace, love and joy knowing that Steve is with his heavenly father and no longer suffering in pain. I never got the opportunity to meet Steve. The parties he attended where Marla Glazer either hosted or group meets, it just happened that I was unable to attend. I got to know Steve through Marla, our good friend. She spoke so fondly of him, never a negative word and very supportive of his illness. Marla's love for Steve was unconditional and she was always there for him. I feel deep in my heart and soul that we could have been kindred spirits. Whenever we don't understand why things happen the way they do, we must always remember, as I was brought up to believe....GOD'S TIMING IS PERFECT! Blessings and prayers are sent your way. My very deepest condolences.

Randy Thorpe

Only knew Steve when he was a kid. He was a neighbour,but one of the good ones. I was lucky enough to kid sit him. After hearing the story of all he has done, I am ashamed of my life I have led( sitting on the couch). I never would have been able to keep up. My condolences to the Arsenault family.

Marla Glazer

To the Family of Stephen Arsenault I am deeply saddened by the passing of Steve. He was more than a friend to me—he was someone I loved dearly and held close to my heart. His kindness, warmth, and the joy that he brought into every moment will never be forgotten. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. May you find comfort in the love and memories you shared, and may his beautiful spirit continue to live on in all of us who were blessed to know him With heartfelt sympathy, Marla

Christine

Replied to Kathy McManus

Thank you.

Christine

Replied to Judy Cheney

Your presence on that day brought him new life. We were all so thankful that you were there. Xo

Christine

Replied to Tracey Sampson and Annie Martineau

Thank you both. Xo

Christine

Replied to Kelly McManus

Thank you Kelly…your words ring true. Xo

Hazel Cameron

Wilf Kitty and family. My deepest sympathy at the loss of Steven. May your memories hold him close. I’m prayers to all

Lisa Cameron

Dear Wilf and Family, sincere condolences on the loss of Steve. May your memories bring you comfort.

Cathy Tracey-Teevens

Wilf, Kitty and family. My deepest sympathy. Anytime I met Steven I was always greeted with a huge smile and a big bear hug. He was a lovely young man. Hugs

James Nickerson

You'll always be remembered for your infectious laugh and the way you lit up family gatherings. My thoughts are with you Uncle Wilf and Aunt Kitty during this tough time.

Pauline Gaudry

Kitty, Wilf, Kim, Christine, Justin, Katie and families I was very saddened to hear about Stephen’s passing. I have so many fond memories of growing up in Aylmer especially the fun we had centered around music. I remember Stephen playing the drums, guitar and other instruments and always smiling doing something he loved. My heart aches for you all and you’re in my thoughts and prayers. Love Pauline Gaudry

Annette Thompson

Our deepest condolences to Steve’s family. He was a very loved friend and neighbour for years. He will continue to shine bright in his new life in the heavens above. So many good times, laughter and sing along will always be remembered by all who loved him.

Judi Moffatt-Hill

Wilf, Kitty and all of Steve's family - I am SO sorry for your loss. Sincere condolences.

Gary Monette

Sad news for sure...steve and I do have a few stories to share for sure but they are funny..Just sayin..

Tracey Sampson and Annie Martineau

Offering you our heartfelt condolences to your family and friends for your loss. Wishing you hope in the midst of sorrow. Comfort in the midst of pain.

Kelly McManus

To the Arsenault family, we extend our deepest sympathy and condolences for this tragic loss! I recall Stephen as a young boy who was a budding musician then, playing his small "open tuned" guitar when I would visit the Arsenault's home in my early teens to get some guitar playing pointers from his dad Wilf Arsenault. Wilf is a guitar master and clearly Stephen inherited his father's artistic talents and skills for music. I will always envy those who pursue their passions and make them their life's goals! It is very apparent that Stephen lived his life with artistic passion and shared his love for music and sound with many! Losing someone so special is very difficult and I pray that the Arsenault family will be able to find solace and peace in Stephen's memory and through the many ways he touched those he loved. Your family was very supportive to our family when we were dealing with the loss of our father Jack. Kitty, Kimberley, and Christine were there to support us and we in turn extend our love and support for you all as you grieve Stephen's untimely passing. Sincere Condolences - Kelly McManus & Family

Tony True

Wilf and family... My most sincere condolences to everyone on the loss of Steve. The few times I had the opportunity to talk to him he was always upbeat and positive. Such a wonderful person, such a great loss. Tony True

Judy Cheney

Always ready to sing. Forever in our hearts ❤️

Kathy McManus

My heart aches for all the family and friends saddened by Steven's passing - gone too soon. I will never forget the couple of gigs Steven and I had as children singing at the Aylmer Winter Carnival - he was the talent - I was more the backup singer. Our families have many fond memories of various gatherings growing up - a connection that always picked right where we left off even though many years may have passed between meeting or chance encounters. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends. My deepest sympathies. Kathy McManus

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