Everyone honors and celebrates the life of a lost loved one differently: some grieve openly while others prefer doing so in a more personal, private way. Whether you’re from the former or latter group, there are still a few tips you can follow during a funeral service to ensure you respect the wishes of the friends and family of the deceased.
First Memorial Funeral Services have been one of the leading Ottawa cremation services and funeral homes for decades. Here they’ve shared some of their insight by offering some must-know funeral etiquette tips.
When attending a funeral, it’s important to wear the proper attire. Doing so will ensure that you demonstrate your respect to the friends and family of the deceased. Although they’re often a celebration of life, funerals are also somber and reflective times, so make sure what you wear illustrates this mood. Avoid dressing in bright colors, or casual clothing. Try to wear formal or semi-formal attire in more neutral shades.
Arriving late to a funeral can be disruptive and upsetting to the friends and family who arrived on time and took their seats. That’s why being punctual is very important. It’s a good idea to arrive at least 10-15 minutes early. This will give you enough time to greet friends and family members and ensure you have a seat.
When at a funeral, you might want to convey your condolences to the friends and family of the deceased. Doing so can provide them with much-needed support. Just be sure that you’re keeping your comments simple and sensitive. This is to ensure you don’t unintentionally say anything that could hurt their feelings.
Powering down or silencing your cell phone during the ceremony is extremely important. Doing so will prevent any interruptions that could distract from the service. Only answer calls in an emergency and when you do so, be sure to step outside.
The first two rows are often designated for family members or very close friends of the family of the deceased. Those who don’t fit into those categories will likely be seated in the other pews. However, if you’re unsure of where to sit, you can always ask one of the ushers to point you in the right direction.
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